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Frequently asked questions

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Welcome to the FAQ page! It's completely normal to have questions and feel a bit nervous. Here, you'll find answers to the most frequently asked questions to help you out. If you can't find what looking for, don't hesitate to reach out to me!

How does this work?

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So you're interested in a boudoir shoot, but a little nervous and not sure how this whole thing works? Lets break it down and ease that anxiety! 
 

First lets set up a consult.  Depending on your location and preference we can do this in person or over the phone. You can reach out to me directly through the contact form at the bottom of the home page here, or through my online booking page here. Usually it only takes a few minutes, but I never put a cap on the time. I want to make sure all your questions are fully answered! If you prefer, we can definitely hash out the details over email as well, I just find having a conversation on the phone or face to face eases anxiety and you get to know me a bit better. 
I will have a more private gallery that you can look through while we talk if a face to face visit is chosen. (Currently still working on this!) We will get to know each other, talk about your vision for your shoot and your comfortability level. At the end of the consultation we will either book, or part our separate ways! I understand how important it is that you have a photographer that vibes with you and makes you feel comfortable and on top of the world! I strive to do that with every person I meet, but sometimes you just don't jive and that's okay! 

If you book, in the weeks leading up to your session you will receive your contract, prep guide, and outfit guide. 

Day of we will meet at the location. Either your hair and makeup will be done prior to arriving or if the upgraded package is chosen that will be completed on site. I'll give you my speech regarding posing and then we will begin! 

Posing- No, you DO NOT need to know how to pose! I will pose you. I will first show you by doing them myself while explaining different techniques to obtain the pose. I may bring out a picture of it as well. 

We will go through different poses, outfits, props ect. There will be breaks, and laughter and FUN! 

Afterwards your gallery will be ready within 1-2 weeks. We will then set up a date and time for your reveal. We can do this in person or online.  This is where we go through all your images, pick your favorites and which package you want to do. There are many options for every budget and desire. Digitals, albums, prints, wall art ect. 

Digitals will be delivered within 3 days of payment, and albums/prints will be delivered within 4 weeks of payment. 

 

You don't have to book a consultation if you prefer not to. If you're ready to book your session, you can head to my online booking page and we can jump right in!
 

What do I wear?!

Your outfit is an expression of individuality and creativity, reflecting your personal style and story. From vibrant streetwear to lingerie, fashion allows people to communicate who they are without saying a word.  Think about how you feel in certain pieces or what vibe your going for. Sweet and innocent? Exotic and moody? 
My go to advice is try on different options and go with whatever makes you feel the best! After booking you'll get an in depth pdf file filled with more options!  

Just because boudoir is often associated with lingerie or nudity doesn’t mean it has to be. Wear what makes you feel comfortable and confident—if that’s fully clothed, that’s perfect. This experience is all about empowering you, exactly as you are

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How do I prep for my shoot?

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The main fundamentals:

Stay hydrated and avoid alcohol and caffeine, as they can dehydrate your skin.

Avoid excessive sun exposure, or spray tans as sunburns and peeling skin can be difficult to cover up with makeup.

Get plenty of rest and try to reduce stress leading up to your shoot, as lack of sleep and stress can show on your skin.

Consider getting a facial or exfoliating treatment a few days before your shoot to ensure your skin is fresh and glowing.

Avoid eating foods that make you feel sluggish, bloated or gassy.

Avoid tight clothing or bra straps. I always recommend the day of, enjoy some braless, sundress time so we can avoid those red, indented strap lines. This includes socks.  

Above all, take care of yourself and prioritize your well-being in the days leading up to your shoot. Your skin will thank you and you will feel more confident and comfortable in front of the camera.

You will also receive a prep guide with more information after booking!​

Should I bring props?

Absolutely! Props can truly enhance your shoot by showcasing your personality and adding charisma. They can as simple as a pearl necklace or scarf, or as adventurous as handcuffs and a whip. Whatever you wish to highlight your photos, feel free to bring it along! If you're unsure, we can brainstorm ideas together. Below are some suggestions to inspire you, but don’t limit yourself to just these!

**Fabrics:** Sheer robes, silk scarves, lace, stockings, bed sheets, or even partner's button-up shirt. **Accessories:** High heels (always!),vintage jewelry, hats, veils, or glasses (if you wear them). **Mirrors:** Large or handheld mirrors to create depth and play with reflections. **Lighting:** String lights, fairy lights, or dramatic lighting to set the mood. **Flowers:** Roses or other for a touch of romance and elegance. **Personal & Themed Props:** **Hobbies:** Favorite books, musical instruments, music sheets, or sports jerseys. Horses, Motorcycles **Celebrations:** Champagne,, or props for milestone birthdays (30, 40, etc.).

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Anything else?

I recommend taking a moment to stretch beforehand. These poses can feel bit unusual as we’re challenging your body in new ways and engaging muscles you may not typically use.

Don’t forget to bring your favorite music playlist—anything that helps you relax and feel pumped! If you don't you might be subjected to mine and its a mixture from 90's hip hop, country, rock and everything in-between! 

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Will you share my images ?

Not without your permission! When we do the reveal there will be a no obligation model release form included that you can look at, read through and decide what your comfortable with. 

* Unless you have signed up for a discounted model release shoot. *

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Do you have any discounts?

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I am currently offering anyone who signs a full model release 15% off your session fee to build my portfolio. 

I will always have 5% off the session fee for repeat customers. Gaining your trust and loyalty will always mean something to me! Same goes with word of mouth! That's why I am also offering 5% off your session if you refer someone to me! This will be for each referral to a maximum of 30% off. 

You can always subscribe to my mailing list, follow me on Instagram and join my Facebook page to be the first to know when I launch other discounts or sales! Links below! 

If I subscribe to your email list, will you be annoying?

No! I definitely don't want to be that annoying email you end up ignoring or unsubscribing to. Leaves such a bad taste in my mouth, I want to be the business you get excited for when you see me come through your emails! Plus, I am a mom of 2, farmer, and once off maternity leave I'll be working full time. I don't have time to annoy the crap out of you! I'm thinking once a month max, unless there's a super exciting announcement that needs your attention after I've already sent my monthly email. It will be for monthly blog updates, model calls, sales and announcements. Nothing annoying, and nothing to frequent :) 

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